A man doesn’t want respect but rather “need it”. A man doesn’t need love and nowhere in the Bible does ever say “a woman should love a man” It doesn’t exist in the scriptures because a man doesn’t need love. It’s simply because a man need “respect”. A man interprets respect as love.
However when a lady tells me she loves me, honestly it doesn’t mean anything to me because it doesn’t move or prick my heart. But when a lady respects me as a man, then i will affirmed that she truly love me.
Ephesians 5:22-25 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord; Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it” The scriptures tell the man to love a woman and it never tells the woman to love the man. But it does say wives respect your husband’s in that same chapter because God knows what he made. So the major problem to you ladies now is “What Is Respect?
How Do A Woman Respect A Man?
The Word respect means “to speak highly of, to hold in high regard. It also means to praise and an average man always gets zero praise. Its reality and very dangerous. Do you know what often hurts the husbands in the church?
It’s because the wife always respect her pastor more than her pastor — Please sisters you’re not married to your pastor. Though it can be tough sometimes to praise or respect your husband but it’s a commandment in which you must obliged. Even if your husband isn’t the perfect man, you’re supposed to help him to be perfect.
Probably he doesn’t know how to search the scripture faster as you, but don’t just sit down there and says “let have devotions”, then again you said to him, “why can’t you find the book of Philippians? You’re not helping that man but rather demeaning his ego.
You’re destroying his pride. No wonder he doesn’t do morning devotions again because you’re supposed to buy him a bigger Bible. You ought to help him and when he can’t find it , tell him, “Honey i know you could.
Am going to wait until you find it honey because i don’t know where it’s myself. Just go right ahead honey. Yes, you can find the Book
of Philippians. Come on honey, yes, you got it honey, yes sir, now let’s go to Chapter 4 verse 13. Honey, yes, now read it and i am going to believe every word you say”.
Reason Why You Need To Marry A Respectful Woman?
There is no woman that is not stubborn but a “respectful woman of prayers” is very scarce. Though she might portray her stubbornness to the world but will definitely succumbed unto your biding because “respect” is her nature and that should be your ultimate focus while searching for a wife to marry.
However you need to widen your Ultimate Search by looking beyond the regalia beauty of women and concentrate in the “content of their heart” because beauty and pretty face will soon fade-off but a “respectful”lady of understanding, with prayerful zeal will certainly helps your ministry.