Have you been miserably failing to overcome sexual temptations? Do you easily give in to the pressure? I want you to consider the following to help you to break away from this cycle of defeat and live free and in consistent victory. Mr John was walking on the street and suddenly he saw a woman with just tight and bra, and she covers it with net. Suddenly Satan/demons comes to Mr John and tell him, don't you remember Janet your former girl friend before you gave your life to Christ? Can't you see she share the same stature with this lady? Quickly he will bring back those old images of John and Janet.
At that junction, John heart is defiles. (Matthew 5:27) There is a soul tie formed between John and That woman as a result of John past life. And if John die at that spot, it's dangerous. That's why bible warned in Proverb 4:27 Turn not to the right or left, but try to keep your face from seeing evil. John don't have the right to slap the strange woman, or kick her out of the way, but he can keep his eyes from watching her.
Moreover, Most of her strategies and plans had been exposed and the her Judgement is getting nearer. and before Satan come's-up with any ideas, he ensure it contradict the word of God. Because he is a good liar and counterfeiter. Today, many ladies walk unclad on street, through the new and latest fashion Satan has given to them and also dress worldly in the church. And even if you call yourself born-again, if you are not careful once you gaze upon such women, you're gone, because your mind will be polluted and defiled.
- URGES: This is an inward struggle; The bible calls it burning” in Roman 1:27. It normally happens in the heart and mainly when one is alone and one's mind not renewed or purified by the holy Ghost. This is always a follow-up of dirty thoughts based on past life and scenes on the road in the day. When this is not controlled, a child of God may graduate to masturbation. Beloved what do you do when you are alone in the room, and also in the bathroom? After fondling with your genitals you still come and lead in songs! How risky it is to play with fire. So you do not know that God is a consuming fire. Be careful.
- UNGUARDED SIGHT: As a result of what one sees or hears, if care is not taken, Sexual sin will definitely occur (See James 1:14-15). Yes,unguarded hours and actions like careless visitation,watching of dirty films,particularly with the opposite sex can be very terrible. Take for instance,a friend may invite you to his house\office for a so- called kind gesture. Yes,lack of contentment (lust) with what one has can put a child of GOD into a serious temptation. In Genesis 34:1-2, Dinah,the only daughter of Jacob received a shock of her life- rape, because she carelessly and casually decided to stroll around. Child of GOD, what happened during Christmas? just because you needed money for clothes, recharge cards ,phone, etc, You allowed yourself to be reduced to a second class. Oh! What a pity to be suddenly turned to a "public toilet" because of lust of the flesh or the lust of the eye/
This was the problem of the people of Corinthian. They have accepted Christ as their savior, but that seed of adultery is yet to be destroy, that ungodly soul tie is yet to be broken, and Satan will keep reminding them of it, such that it push many of them into adultery, fornication, Masturbating, in fact it lead them to sexual intercourse in dream.That is the work of Satan.
Your mind is completely saturated with images from pornographic movies and magazines that you see on a daily basis. You have involved with this kind of addiction for many years. You are now struggling with living a life of sexual purity after giving your life to the Lord Jesus Christ.
Whenever unclean taught comes into your mind, you immediately rebuke bind and cast it out of your mind. But yet, the taught keep coming back. I want you to know that Satan never get tired in bringing this kind of taught into your mind. But what if the rapture sound the moment those unclean taught visit your mind? What will you do? Or what if you die at that spot and you died with an unclean mind, what will you do?
Permit me to say more than 90% of Christians are in this predicament even many born-again. They have prayed, fasted just to get rid of it, but couldn’t stop. The Word of God says, Ephesian 6:12 "we do not fight against flesh and blood but against evil spirits. Lustful thoughts were not originating from you but from Satan and he was the one placing those thoughts in your mind and this type of oppression come specifically from a demon named “LUST”.
You are right. In-fact, At first, the thoughts did not leave as fast as you wanted them to leave but it would eventually happen. But demons would insist in returning to the house they left because they need to satisfy the hunger that their nature demands. A demon of lust would of course hunger for sexual sin. The same would be for a demon of depression that hungers for that depression.
But let’s not point the finger too far because we could also use ourselves as an example. Right? As Christians carrying the name and the power in the name of Jesus we need to resist that lustful thought and rebuke the demon that is filling our minds with this garbage
If you have given your life to Christ in your teen age and have never involve in this in your life, I will like to say, congratulation to you. Many people that still live a sinful life, most especially that still have sexual intercourse with women or different men, young men that still watch x-rated movies, pornography images and magazine, most especially, men and women that still masturbate, you don’t know what you’re doing.
You think you are enjoying your life but you are only destroying it. Have this in mind, if you repent from your sin and surrender your life to Jesus Christ, you will regret ever involving yourself in it. Many Born-again Christians men and Women that has worked zealously for God, still end up in hell just because they could not get rid of the pornography images registered into their mind.
Not that, they wish to have those kind of taught in their mind, but they don’t know how to get out. They find it difficult to look at women twice, and Satan has use this as a great advantage on them. You truly gave your life to Christ but you are yet to be sanctified. Once they gaze on women from far, Satan will quickly remind them of those dirty action they have involved in the past.
Brethren, there are some soul-tie you need to break 1 Corinthian 6:16 "know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh. Looking at those nolly-wood Actress and Hollywood Actress, Celebrities etc, seeing their half naked dressing alone, that images will automatically registered into your mind, and lusting after them,
You have already having sexual relation with him or her without any contact with him or her (Matthew 5:27-28). I would like to mention that in the Bible you will not find the term "soul tie" but rather it's referred to as "two becoming one flesh" (Genesis 2:24; 1 Corinthian 6:16).
There are good and evil soul ties and covenant.
- The good soul ties are the ones that God has established through these similar relationships: husband and wife, family and friends, etc.
- Evil soul ties are the ones that contradict and violate this order.
Why Those Images Keep Appearing?
Having discovered the truth about soul ties along with this teaching. I finally understood the reason why the lustful thoughts would only leave temporarily. As I previously said, one of the ways that soul ties are formed is by having sexual intercourse with another person. From the spiritual point of view, every time we watched those X-rated movies and magazines and we were lusting after the women, an ungodly soul tie was formed in our hearts EVERY SINGLE TIME!.
I want you to understand that these were not new images but OLD images of lust. These were images that remind you of movies or pictures that you have watched before becoming a Christian. These were images of women that you had lusted for in the past.
Thus, an ungodly soul tie was formed in your heart still connecting you to them. This was the only reason why those images kept re-appearing time after time and would have kept re-appearing had you not learned the truth about soul ties and how to fight against deadly sin of sexual immoral lust.
It would be impossible for most of us to remember all the times we have ever looked at a woman lustfully and the good news is that we don’t have to. You will know when you are still bound to an ungodly soul tie when you get repetitive images of a man or woman you’ve lusted for in the past whether it was an X-rated movie. a picture, or a past relationship.
Identifying Ungodly Soul Ties
- The Holy Spirit: He will help you by bringing to your remembrance every ungodly soul tie that continues to be inside your heart.
- Repetitive Thoughts: When in your mind you play lustful images of women that you have seen in the past over and over then that’s a sign that an ungodly soul tie was formed in your heart with those women.
This invitation has been open to EVERYONE. The only thing that God needs from us is this, that we open our hearts and that we acknowledge that have offended Him because of our sins. This is what the Word of God says: 1 John 1:8 "If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. Romans 3:23 'For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Romans 5:8 "But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
If you are willing to receive the gift of salvation please say this prayer:
"Father, I know that I'm far from you but I believe that you sent your Son, Jesus, in order to die for all of my sins. I know that I'm a sinner and that I'm far from you because of them. I'm in desperate need of your forgiveness so I repent for all my wrongdoings and I'm sorry for trespassing your boundaries. Lord Jesus, I believe that you are the Son of God, that you died but that you also rose again and are alive today. I now accept your forgiveness and accept you as my Lord and Savior. I ask you to come into my heart and to set me free from every addiction and emptiness that is in my life.In the name of Jesus I pray."
Escaping From The Bondage.
Before going through these steps you will need to get a pen and paper. Please know that it’s very important that you say every prayer verbally, otherwise, it will not be effective.
- Write down the names of every single person you’ve been sexually involved with except for your spouse if you’re married.
- Repent to the Lord by saying this prayer:“Father, I confess to you all of my sexual sins. Forgive me for allowing these sins to rule my life and for every ungodly soul tie that was formed in my heart as a result of fornication and adultery. I choose to give myself completely to You because only You have the power to set me free. Thank you, Father, I receive your forgiveness and your cleansing. In the name of Jesus I pray – AMEN.”
- Command the soul ties to be broken by saying this prayer for every single person on the list:“I now renounce the ungodly soul tie that was formed between me and [NAME OF THE PERSON]. I command it to be broken and to leave my heart right now in the name of Jesus.”
- As you think of every REPETITIVE and OLD lustful image say this prayer: “I now renounce the ungodly soul tie that was formed in my heart as I watched that (woman in the movie, woman in the magazine, etc.). I command it to be broken and to leave my heart right now in the name of Jesus.”
- After you have finished breaking every soul tie declare this: "Satan, you have no legal right in this house anymore. I declare that each demonic soul tie that was mentioned is now destroyed in the name of my Lord Jesus Christ. All of you demonic spirits that came as a result of those soul ties, I COMMAND YOU TO LEAVE RIGHT NOW in the name of Jesus Christ.